I’m pretty sure–since you’re here–that one of your goals in life is to be an excellent wife, mother, and homemaker.
What about an excellent woman?
You are a woman now.
You will be woman if you become a wife. You will be a woman if you become a mother. You will be a woman if you never marry. You will be a woman after your children are grown. You will be a woman if/when you are widowed.
You will ALWAYS be a woman.
Wife, mother, and homemaker are potential roles. Woman in non-negotiable. Not only does your excellence as a woman matter to God, you, and everyone around you, it also is the foundation of your excellence in any other role. Your success (and happiness) as a wife, mother, and homemaker depends on who and what you are as a woman.